Making a home age-friendly isn’t just a bit important – it is screamingly, desperately urgent!

Firstly, between you and I, there a few brutal truths that mean making a home age-friendly isn’t just a bit important – it is screamingly, desperately urgent!  Why?

1. Fail to plan…. :

An unsafe home can lead to, otherwise avoidable, accidents or illness that result in unexpected crisis points for the household and their support network – meaning decisions are made in haste, with little time to reflect on a good range of choices.  If you reduce the risks at home, you can delay the difficult moments.

[Read more about the pressures of the ‘Sandwich Generation’ here]

2. Residential Care is rarely a first choice option:

People rarely move into residential care settings in a planned fashion, and it doesn’t have to be the inevitable next step in ageing after an accident or illness – In fact, only 4% of people say they ever want to move into a care home.  (We aren’t saying care settings can’t be fabulous, they can, but they aren’t always a first choice)

3.Residential care and even domiciliary (home) care is expensive – very expensive:

Residential care costs around £36,000 per year, but in more expensive areas can be upwards of £50,000 per year.  It is estimated that around 1 in 10 people over 65 years old face care costs of £100,000 or more. (So spending a few hundred, or even a few thousand, pounds on home adjustments seems like a bargain don’t you think?)

To calculate the likely costs for your area visit the WHICH? Cost of Care and Eligibility Calculator

Image showing 10 people with one of these in a darker colour to illustrate the point that 1 in 10 people over 65 years old face care costs of £100,000 or more.
Source: Commission on Funding of Care and Support and The Kings Fund
4. Not enough people to go round…..

There is a major shortfall in the human capital (people) in the domiciliary care system, making it harder to find good quality, reliable carers. Would you like to have a roll-call of strangers coming into your house every day? (So many carers are brilliant, but it is not always possible to see the same person each time and this places the onus on the family to make sure their loved one gets the care and medication they need each day)

5. Few people are eligible for State-funded Social Care

Firstly, State-funded social care (delivered via Local Authorities) is reserved for a very small section of the population. Secondly, the numbers who are eligible for funded care are reducing each year, despite the number of older people increasing. Most people will be self-funders, and may need to sell their assets to fund their care.

And so, it stands to reason that the longer you can delay the need for home care or residential care, the less stressful and less costly the ageing process is likely to be. And age-friendly home can’t fix all of later life challenges, far from it – but we promise you, it will help.

Age-Friendly Homes – Should I stay put or go? Article 1

Should I stay put or go? Have you ever thought about relocating – either yourself or someone else? 

Sometimes your home may not suit you perfectly anymore, and the obvious answer seems to be to move somewhere else.  However, before you decide whether to stay put or go, make sure you have considered all options for making your existing home more Age-friendly.  (Remember, have a browse through our Blogs for advice. Then check our range of services, to help you make the most of whatever property you choose to live in.)

One of our clients, Joyce went through her own ‘Stay Put or Go’ journey. Joyce was so delighted by our service that she wrote us a poem about her experience.  Enjoy!

This is one of a series of ‘Stay Put or Go’ articles. Everyone is different and we hope this series helps you make the best decision. The next article in the series sets out some of the considerations.

Perhaps you are worried about a loved one and wonder whether they should stay living in their own home? Or perhaps you think a move to a residential home or nursing home might be better? If so, You can read some of our focus articles such as this one to help you help them.

Are you part of the Sandwich Generation?

Are you part of the Sandwich Generation? And no, it is not ‘Ladies who Lunch’!  Do you have caring responsibilities for your children AND your parents (or an older friend or family member)? If so, you are part of the Sandwich Generation – and you are likely to be ‘Time Poor’ – especially if you work or volunteer as well.  

So what can you do to ease the burden? Firstly, try to identify the risks and barriers to ageing well in your loved one’s own home. What features in the home are hazardous or problematic? And then, once you know what sort of risks might be inherent to the home, make a plan to make small changes to improve the environment. Read our ‘Small Changes‘ blog series to find out more.

This is the first in our Sandwich Generation blog posts. There are more posts to follow on how to make effective use of the time you have with your parents (or older relatives) if you are worried about their safety or independence at home. https://livingwellathome.co.uk/blog/

Kaye of Loose Women fame, tells her own story of the pressure of being part of the Sandwich generation in this video:

Remember, always try to make any changes to a home with the consent and involvement of the household themselves. How would you like it if someone came into your property and started moving things around? We believe that change is made best, when made with consent.

Are you visiting older relatives this Christmas?

Are you visiting older relatives this christmas? Top tips for helping your loved ones live well, at home, in later life.

Tip 1: If you are concerned about your relative, talk to them and find out what they are thinking and feeling. That is to say, you can’t help them if you don’t understand what it is that they want or need. And they may not want a Residential Care Home, only 7% of people favour this option! Reading our Tip 1 Blog is a good starting point for this….

Tip 2: Are you worried about their memory? Or their physical condition or their mental state? There is no single test to assess risk, however, there are some simple checks you can do yourself. Read our Tip 2 Blog, where we also identify organisations that may be able to help you too.

Tip 3: You can help your loved one to cope better in their own home with some simple changes to it. For instance, improving the security and lighting. Or perhaps you can spot and removing any trip hazards or fall risks. That way you can help them to retain their independence. There are many more things you can do to future-proof a home. Read here to find out more…..

Tip 4: Plan for the future…. and, no matter how hard it is, talk about death. We know this can be a hard thing to do. In Tip 4’s blog, we look at some options on how to discuss your loved one’s preferences and plans without causing upset or distress.